The Invisible Wall: Why Great People Don’t Always Say Yes
During a recent Digital Marketing Bootcamp in London, I met some truly talented, generous, and creative individuals. People with energy. Ideas. Vision.
The kind of people you instantly imagine building something meaningful with.
So naturally, once the course ended, I reached out. I invited a few to collaborate on Cool Sardinia Guide — a project rooted in sustainability, creativity, and community.
And you know what?
Most of them never replied. Some were hesitant. Others politely declined.
It made me reflect:
Why do people with so much potential often pull back — right when opportunity knocks?
Here’s what I’ve learned, both as a professional and as a human being:
🔍 1. Fear of failure.
Even the most capable people doubt themselves. Collaborating means stepping into uncertainty. It’s safer to admire from a distance than to risk getting involved.
🌫️ 2. Distrust in “non-traditional” paths.
Projects like ours — creative, social, visionary — don’t always fit into corporate checkboxes. And if something doesn’t follow a clear formula, some instinctively say: “Let’s wait and see.”
🕰️ 3. No instant return = no instant interest.
People often expect quick payoffs. If the reward isn’t immediate (or monetary), they walk away… not realising how much long-term value they’re missing.
👀 4. They don’t see what you see.
If you’re someone who builds things — who dreams with structure — you’re always ahead. And not everyone is ready to walk a road they can’t fully picture yet.
🤐 5. Fear of losing control or status.
In group settings, there’s often an unspoken competition. People hold back because joining your project feels like giving up their lead.
💚 So what’s the answer?
Keep going. Keep building.
The right collaborators will arrive — not through pressure, but through resonance.
Let your work speak for itself. Let your integrity shine.
And let the door stay open — for the ones who will walk through it when they’re ready.
